I hope you've had quite a great week so far! Today I am a bit excited while I hang out in 25 degree sunlight listening to the ocean as Sarah is napping! We made a last minute sunshine travel and I just enjoy the fact I have the opportunity to do so! Several years before this was a wild dream! Every day my vision board for 2017 starts becoming more true!
At the moment, I'm in a positive period in life, I feel like I'm improving and I feel pretty confident about everything, but I realize this is a transition process that we continue to move through in life. I stumbled across it many years ago and as soon as I noticed it in my own life, I saw it with customers everywhere, too!
Today I decided to share this with you, because it's such a valuable resource to turn in. This even allows us to become kinder to ourselves! I don't know about you, but it makes things so simpler to work around when I realize that something is happening or that I behave the way I do!
It seems we're passing through life stages so I'm wondering if you can locate where you are right now? There's no fixed time line for each cycle, but there's something like this: the frustration process you're moving through in your life because it's not perfect, you're feeling irritated, depressed, dissatisfied in some area — it may be a friendship, a job, you want to calm down, it may be financial, but you realize you need to make a shift. You have to make a fresh move, you have to do something special and that's terrifying. During this time, there could be a lot of fear, frustration and it will continue for a while before you make the adjustment or you make the new choice and then step onto stage 2.
The Falling Apart Stage You sound like the edges are pulling away. You're going to have to break down partnerships, maybe you're moving home or country, maybe you're changing job or heading back to college, maybe it's a moment where you're no longer tolerating those actions or individuals in your life so you need to be strong so put up rules, maybe you like you're damaging someone you care for, but you realize you need to do what you're doing with yourself. You break back, knock down the old to make space to make place for the new. You have begun a change between who you are to what you are doing and you are going into stage 3 The 'Jigsaw Puzzle' Step You're now in the process of bringing together the new image of your life. Find the pieces that still match, then build new ones. There is always doubt, of course, and you feel a bit wobbly but now you are more focused, you are gaining insight and concentration. You're beginning to see what the image could look like and it's thrilling- often terrifying and still challenging, but you're putting in your effort so you've developed up that endurance so you're going towards the advancement of stage 4.
The Development Stage Which is so good! Finally, you feel like you are in the right rhythm, you build confidence, energy, you see the effects of your efforts. You've completed your marketing strategy, you've been to those pretty nice occasions, you've dropped the weight, you can run the 10k, you've earned the deposit- no matter what it's for you! This is where you say life feels sweet, it looks charmed and magical. You're going further and closer to your goals, so you're feeling connected, confident with your own capacity so powerful inside.
It can be challenging to negotiate the later sections of this point - you are too close to the major goal, the huge hope and anxiety sometimes sets in. Brain monkeys are emerging and telling you, why do you believe you're going to get everything you want? Proud to be? Successful? It is natural and very usual that you need to continue to push on. During this time, bring in the support staff, bring in the instructor, the manager, the financial planner- everything you need to keep you on track! So many of us are getting too close, and then give up. Know that even this question is part of the method! You hit stage 5 while you're sitting on the line!
The Elation Process, You did it! You reached the great vision, you did what you set out to do, you released the novel, you're actually traveling the globe, you're engaged or you bought the home, you got the kid, you got the promotion, you started the company! All the right things! You're back! This is the year everybody needs to have and when you're here, savor it as we've been dreaming about before! Suck as much goodness as you can out of this! You've updated your life so you're in possession of the emotions of certainty — you realize it's all right.
At the moment, I'm in a positive period in life, I feel like I'm improving and I feel pretty confident about everything, but I realize this is a transition process that we continue to move through in life. I stumbled across it many years ago and as soon as I noticed it in my own life, I saw it with customers everywhere, too!
Today I decided to share this with you, because it's such a valuable resource to turn in. This even allows us to become kinder to ourselves! I don't know about you, but it makes things so simpler to work around when I realize that something is happening or that I behave the way I do!
It seems we're passing through life stages so I'm wondering if you can locate where you are right now? There's no fixed time line for each cycle, but there's something like this: the frustration process you're moving through in your life because it's not perfect, you're feeling irritated, depressed, dissatisfied in some area — it may be a friendship, a job, you want to calm down, it may be financial, but you realize you need to make a shift. You have to make a fresh move, you have to do something special and that's terrifying. During this time, there could be a lot of fear, frustration and it will continue for a while before you make the adjustment or you make the new choice and then step onto stage 2.
The Falling Apart Stage You sound like the edges are pulling away. You're going to have to break down partnerships, maybe you're moving home or country, maybe you're changing job or heading back to college, maybe it's a moment where you're no longer tolerating those actions or individuals in your life so you need to be strong so put up rules, maybe you like you're damaging someone you care for, but you realize you need to do what you're doing with yourself. You break back, knock down the old to make space to make place for the new. You have begun a change between who you are to what you are doing and you are going into stage 3 The 'Jigsaw Puzzle' Step You're now in the process of bringing together the new image of your life. Find the pieces that still match, then build new ones. There is always doubt, of course, and you feel a bit wobbly but now you are more focused, you are gaining insight and concentration. You're beginning to see what the image could look like and it's thrilling- often terrifying and still challenging, but you're putting in your effort so you've developed up that endurance so you're going towards the advancement of stage 4.
The Development Stage Which is so good! Finally, you feel like you are in the right rhythm, you build confidence, energy, you see the effects of your efforts. You've completed your marketing strategy, you've been to those pretty nice occasions, you've dropped the weight, you can run the 10k, you've earned the deposit- no matter what it's for you! This is where you say life feels sweet, it looks charmed and magical. You're going further and closer to your goals, so you're feeling connected, confident with your own capacity so powerful inside.
It can be challenging to negotiate the later sections of this point - you are too close to the major goal, the huge hope and anxiety sometimes sets in. Brain monkeys are emerging and telling you, why do you believe you're going to get everything you want? Proud to be? Successful? It is natural and very usual that you need to continue to push on. During this time, bring in the support staff, bring in the instructor, the manager, the financial planner- everything you need to keep you on track! So many of us are getting too close, and then give up. Know that even this question is part of the method! You hit stage 5 while you're sitting on the line!
The Elation Process, You did it! You reached the great vision, you did what you set out to do, you released the novel, you're actually traveling the globe, you're engaged or you bought the home, you got the kid, you got the promotion, you started the company! All the right things! You're back! This is the year everybody needs to have and when you're here, savor it as we've been dreaming about before! Suck as much goodness as you can out of this! You've updated your life so you're in possession of the emotions of certainty — you realize it's all right.
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